last updated February 16, 2019
Do you suffer from small penis syndrome?
Well, the term is used for both a physical condition and a psychological condition.
You know what? In the physical world: There is no such thing.
Yes, there are thousands of men with very small penises. But, having a small penis is not a “syndrome”.
Syndrome: “a group or pattern of symptoms that together are indicative of a particular disease, disorder, or condition.” reference: - Wordsmyth Dictionary
It’s simply small penises. Just as there are many guys with monster cocks, there are many guys with tiny cocks.
There is also what is known as a “micropenis”. This is a genetic abnormality.
In this article we will be discussing the actual small penis and also the man who feels his penis is too small (psychological small penis syndrome).
Let’s look at the actual physical size first:
Believe it or not, a monster cock is not something women usually get excited about. Giant cocks, even very large ones, usually horrify women because they know the potential damage and pain these thing can cause.
Still, most guys say they would want one if they could have one. Right? Well, maybe not as big as that top one...
On the other side of the coin we have the small penises:
If your erection is sitting somewhere in the 3 inch zone (like the statue above), yes, you do have an unusually small penis. The good news is: you can enlarge it.
If you get to 4”, you will still be on the small side. But, that 4” cock will look a whole lot bigger than a 3” one. And, I do think you’ll have a lot more fun with it.
No. You will never turn a small 3 inch cock into an 8 inch one. Or, a 6” one. Not in a practical way. You can. But, you’ll probably cause some damage that will make your cock quite useless.
But, creating a 4 incher is not that unusual. And, if you learn to use that 4 incher correctly, and learn as many other sensual love making techniques as possible, you will be able to out shine the normal average size 5 inch man in the bedroom.
Did you know that?
“In the Journal of Urology study,
researchers found the following among the group of 80 men:
An average penis size of 8.8 cm (3.5 inches) when flaccid.
An average penis size of 12.9 cm (5.1 inches) when erect.”
ref: “What Size is the Average Penis?”
That’s right. Almost all young guys think they are masters in the bedroom. Sexual Gods. But, ask the women they slept with and you’ll find out most guys are just OK. No great shakes. Not especially memorable. Very few are really great lovers.
This works very much in your favor if your cock is on the smaller side.
You can become a great lover. Even with “small penis syndrome”. OK. I couldn’t resist using the term. And, yes, I do mean to make light of the term because it is very derogatory, and, it makes a man feel bad for no good reason.
So, let’s get past the emotional connections to the term "small penis syndrome".
Hey, some guys are tall. Some are short. Most are in the middle. “Average”. The same holds true for penises. And, for ability in the bedroom. Regardless of erectile size.
If you learn good sexual technique, and sensuality, no woman is going to be very concern about your actual size, or, “small penis syndrome”.
To tell a man, especially a young man, that he has small penis syndrome is meaningless and no help at all. So, let’s get past the idea that “size really matters”. Yes, it does matter to some degree. But, mostly it’s about technique, sensuality, and the man himself.
It’s no different than the way men think about breast size in women. Some care, some don’t. And, some men want her to have blue eyes, some brown. See?
These things will put any young man, who is told he has small penis syndrome, in the right frame of mind to live a healthy normal life with outstanding sex and a happy partner.
A bigger penis can also be helpful if it makes you feel sexually stronger. And, size increase is easy to accomplish 99% of the time.
Creating good sexual and sensual technique,
creating confidence in a young man as a person, these are constructive.
And, for a man who thinks he has small penis syndrome,
growing a bigger shaft can greatly improve his self confidence.
Sexual technique can be learned all over the place on the internet.
Getting confidence will be learned from practice,
little by little.
And, confidence will come quickly once you do just a few things sensually pleasurable to your partner(s).
That’s a great question. And, the answer is: YES.
Many men and women think you either have it or you don’t. Not true. Yes, some people are better at it than others. Just as some people can run faster than others. Some have a natural gift also.
The important thing here is this:
Sensuality can be learned if you have any nerve sensitivity at all. But, you’ll need to practice.
On yourself first. Yes, on yourself. Like this:
Touch any part of your body in different ways. Not your cock, the rest of your body. You chest, your neck, your nipples, your closed eyes.... Feel the difference it makes if you are gentle or rough. Pressing hard or softly. Moving quickly or slowly. Wet or dry.... See what feels most erotic to you. Practice that on yourself. Over and over. Then do the exact great feeling ones to your partner.
It will take some guts and a little will power the first time you try it on your partner. But, let me tell you this: When you hear her first little moan of pleasure, you’ll get bolder and bolder very quickly.
That’s the most important thing you want to learn from this article. Right? That you can. AND, how you can.
Just because you are told you have small penis syndrome (in physical size), it doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you. Nothing. You’re as normal and desirable as anyone else. You just have a small cock. The terminology “small penis syndrome” is demeaning and inappropriate.
Did you know that simple correct penis traction can give you a longer and wider cock. And, the results are permanent.
That’s right. And, once you create a bigger cock with penis traction, you have added new growth to your shaft. New cellular content to your shaft. And, that new size will not go away.
I’m going to send you to my article about penis enlargement, also known as male enhancement, so you can read all about it and understand the process thoroughly.
The article is entitled: The Best Natural Male Enhancement.
That article will explain all you need to know about penis traction. And, why it is the Safest and Most Effective medically endorsed and recommended method to enlarge a penis.
“In recent years, penile traction therapy (PTT) has gained considerable interest as a novel (new) nonsurgical treatment option for men with Peyronie’s disease (PD) and short penises..... It appears to be safe and well tolerated.....”
ref: Dr. Eric Chung, Dr. Gerald Brock,
Penis Traction Therapy and Peyronies Disease
"Based on current evidence, we suggest that penile extenders, not surgery, should be the first-line treatment (for penis enlargement).... Surgery is characterised by a risk of complications and unwanted outcomes and lack of consensus among the medical profession on the indications for surgery and the techniques used. That is why a non-invasive technique is preferable."
ref: Dr. Paolo Gontero
Medical News Today
So many articles about enlarging a small penis are far too formerly written and only make men feel worse.
I am in no way invalidating the feelings you may now have. And, I mean no disrespect at all with what I am about to share with you.
Yes, a small penis can definitely make a man feel bad. But, since you are now learning you can do something about it, that yes, you can enlarge your penis. Safely and Easily. I hope this is making you feel less troubled now.
Now, I’m going to take a moment here and share a little laugh with you before we continue.
The Urban Dictionary makes me laugh because they describe the psychological aspect of small penis syndrome in a very funny and accurate way:
“Any man who feels so inadequate about his penis size that he compensates for it by buying ridiculously large shit he doesn't need. This usually involves buying the biggest truck they can, raising it and putting airplane tires on it. Owning 20 or more large guns, talking about being violent or making threats when they are cowardice. And sleeping with big women to feel adequate, because they lack self esteem. They usually tend to hit, disrespect or yell at women. This may be because women won't/can't sit on their tiny dick. They also usually have a shit load of kids because they try to wear XL condoms, thus leading to unwanted kids whom they also beat and yell at.
Anyone with a unnecessary raised truck with huge tires, lots of guns, a huge 7 room house, or a reputation for lying about themselves in general, yet still doesn't have a goddamn woman. This can make them have small penis syndrome.”
We’ve all those guys. Am I Right?
There is no set of circumstances that you can point to that gave you a small dick except that you inherited it either as a family trait or as a genetic abnormality.
A small dick is not a disease or any other nonsense. You got blue eyes, brown hair, you’re 5’ 10” tall, you have a size 9 shoe and you have a small dick. It’s no syndrome. It's just a small dick.
That’s all there is to it. And, it’s not really anything to worry about. Although almost every guy on the smaller side will worry. That’s why I’m writing this article for you. So you can enjoy your sex life just like anyone else.
Remember: There’s no syndrome (“a group or pattern of symptoms that together are indicative of a particular disease, disorder, or condition.” Wordsmyth Dictionary).
You can easily overcome the “problem”.
Your small penis doesn’t make you smarter, stupider, funnier, wittier, less charming, more serious or have any other syndrome quality.
Yes, you may be self conscious, depressed, frustrated, unhappy about it, shy, etc.... But, that’s your own fault (tough love....).
And, that’s a good thing. Because you can change all those negative emotions over night just by realizing there is nothing wrong with a small penis. AND, a small penis can be made larger. Easily. Without surgery.
Yes, a small penis is not the most desirable thing to have. It’s also not the worst thing. It's not a "syndrome" either. It's just a small penis. And, you can make your penis bigger.
Even more important, you can learn to be a very great and sensual lover. Even if you are a true useless geek in bed right now. I’ve seen this happen over and over again. So, don’t doubt yourself. Even if right now you think that statement is ridiculous.
You can become a really great lover.
I’ll say it again because most of you don’t believe it right now:
You can become a great lover, AND, have a bigger penis.
Your confidence and ability as a lover will compensate for smaller size. And, here’s the most important thing you need to know:
Ability and confidence in bed can be learned.
Even the most inhibited nerdy guy
with a small penis
can become very sexually desirable.
Sexual confidence and ability will make a man more desirable sexually to women than 90% of men with normal and large cocks.
It’s not the cock that matters. It’s the man. Ask any woman.
But, if it’s your desire, you can increase the size of your cock. So, you’ll be winning in both departments.
Did you ever see a really kind of below average looking short older guy walking into a restaurant with a beautiful woman on his arm. His wife? And, you find out the guy isn’t even rich?
I used to live in Hollywood, California. And, every once in a while I’d go to a fashionable new restaurant. You’d see some of the most beautiful women in town at these places.
Lots of gold diggers too. Flirting with the rich guys.
And, in would walk a kind of plain, average, short guy, sometimes fat, with no real sense of taste in clothes, a big smile on his face and an absolutely gorgeous woman holding on to his arm and smiling at him.
We used to immediately wonder who he was. Obviously some super rich guy. Right? Nope. They’d laugh all night, she’d cuddle close to him, and at the end of the evening they’d drive off in an 8 year old Buick.
As young men, it always used to seem a mystery to us. How did he do it?
You know how he got her? By being an incredible caring guy.
The same holds true for the man with a small cock.
If you are on the smaller side, forget about having small penis syndrome. There really is no such thing. (Unless you’re one of those guys who buy big items to compensate for your size.)
If you are willing to learn how to please a woman in bed, and you’re willing to learn how to talk to a woman, you’ll outscore 90% of the competition.
But, if making your cock bigger appeals to you, there is nothing wrong with that. And, yes, you can do it. Safely and easily. If you do it correctly. With correct penis traction.
Now, a small penis is whole lot different than a micro penis. Or, a chode. Those are little tiny penises that are not normal and, unfortunately, there is very little you can do to improve them.
And, I’m sorry to any of my readers who suffer from a micro penis or a chode because there is nothing I can really recommend to you to make your shaft bigger other than a complete penis reconstruction. And, that is a whole different topic.
However, for guys with a small cock, let’s say 3 inches erect, there is a greater possibility. There is an actual proven method called penis traction, that you have been reading about on this website.
Penis traction may even add an inch to your cock if you use it patiently and diligently for an extended period of time. Let’s say, at least a year. But, even one half inch will look and feel noticeably larger.
There are even special attachments made especially for small cocks. And, they work.
Small penis syndrome. OMG! It makes you think that there are all kinds of things that you have to overcome because you weren’t really blessed in this area.
Well, let me tell you one more important piece of information: Even a very small cock can produce wonderful offspring.
Yes, even if you have a really tiny cock, as long as it is functioning properly, as long as you are ejaculating healthy sperm, you can father your children.
Those little swimmers are very determined. If you get them anywhere into the vagina, they can easily swim up to the eggs. That’s nature’s design.
There is really no such physical thing as "small penis syndrome". Psychologically, yes. Physically, no. It's just a small penis.
So, Please: Stop feeling bad about what you have down there. There’s no need to be concerned any more.
Because a small penis can be made larger.